Monday, May 16, 2011

Finishing this blogger challenge....

So obviously this blogger challenge has taken way more than 30 days because of my surgery then just being busy and most recently because of a migraine I had for about 3 days straight, therefore I am deciding to do the remaining days right now all in a row and get this blog challenge over with for once and for all! :o) I love blogging again and I will definitely keep up on it now from this point forward. I may not update a post every day but with every even in our life I will be sure to update everyone on so here goes Day 24- Day 30 all in a nutshell....

Day 24: Something you have learned....
I would have to say that the number one thing in life I have learned is to forgive but make sure to never forget. Many people in my life have hurt many in many different ways and majority of them I still have relationships with to this day, many people think I am crazy for having relationships with some of them but I feel as a person I need to be able to get past what they have done to me no matter how harsh, how mean, how sad, or how vindictive it was forgive them and make sure to keep that little tally in the back of my mind what has happened just in case it needs to come about again. I am not by any means saying I pull things from my backpack all the time however there are some instances where my awesome memory plays a great role in a conversation lol There are many things in our lives that could hurt us beyond control and if those things are dwelled upon it can in the end tear up your life and make you a miserable person so rather than being depressed or sad I have learned to forgive and "not" forget lol



Day 25: Put your Ipod on shuffle, first 10 songs......
This should be a fun one lol

1. Dmx- for my dogs
2. Eminem- rock bottom
3. lynyrd skynyrd- whiskey rock-a-roller
4. LMFAO- la la la
5. Darius Rucker- alright
6. E-40- dem boyz
7. Kid Cudi- day n' nite
8. Three 6 mafia- tongue ring
9. Disturbed- haunted
10.Rancid- salvation
As you can see the ipod ranges anywhere from gangster rap to country to heavy metal and everything in between :o)



Day 26: Your Dream wedding......
Well considering at this very moment I am not able to get married I really havent thought about my dream wedding. As a little girl I was never one to fantasize about what my wedding would look like or how it would be, I do however have a few things that if Shauna & I were able to get married I would like to have. I am a huge fan of black magic roses and I would make sure that my entire bouquet as well as Shaunas was nothing but black magic roses the center pieces and decor of the wedding would of coarse match the dark almost black color of the flowers and I would love for the ceiling to be draped with sheer and clear lights almost like a fairy tale, it would be so weird to see Shauna in a dress but we both would be wearing one on our perfect day. Ethan would be our little ring bear and Im sure I have a few adorable little girls In my life that would make perfect flower girls. I have never sat down and thought about it entirely because I dont believe it will ever happen but it if did it would definitely involve black magic roses!!!




Day 27: Original photo of the city you live in....
The sunset is always beautiful in the desert!



Day 28: Something that stresses you out.....
WORK!!! hahaha well of coarse that would be my number one thing in this world that stresses me out; other than that there are very few things in life that I get extremely stressed out about, most of which are so small and people shouldnt even stress over them but I do like if the house is not clean or if I have things on my agenda to do and they dont all get done. Im very weird like that but I would definitely have to say my one and only major stress's is work!!



Day 29: 3 wishes....
1. I wish for a prefect home one day that we can buy, nothing that has to be immaculate but something I have always been wanting
2. I wish that Ethan will go up to be a respect man and treat his woman in life they way we are raising him which is to be kind, gentle, and to express your emotions. Many people may say that he is a pansy because he is raised by 2 girls and we are to soft on him but in all honesty there are several boys raised without a male besides just relatives and they usually are the most respectful men out there so I wish for Ethan to be a respectful and respectable your man!!
3. My final wish would be to take my wife on a wonderful vacation full of laughter and lots of fun, somewhere neither of us have been for 5-7 days kiddo free kind of like a honeymoon!!!



Day 30: FINALLY.....a picture of yourself this day & 5 good things that have happened since starting this challenge.....


1. I have spend the most time ever with my son since he has been born all because I took time off work and I have learned so much about him and grown so much closer to him than I could ever imagine.
2. I have been treated to 2 concerts to see System of a Down which isnt until next week but I bought the tickets during this challenge my wifey is the best!!
3. I have found myself alittle more and realized that I dont need to be so hard on myself and everything doesnt have to be perfect
4. I have been able to get closer to Shauna again like we were when we were young, all the stressing of work made me forget how much I love her and how much I enjoy spending time with her now
5. I have discovered because of my sister-in-law the amazing world of cake balls and how much I LOVE THEM!!!!

Goodnight all I enjoyed the blog challenge very much so and I look forward to adding many more posts in the future!! ♥

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